Do you think there should be a “sex” subcategory for “Singles and Dating” under Family & Relationships?

Question by Alec the Dalek: Do you think there should be a “sex” subcategory for “Singles and Dating” under Family & Relationships?
I’m not advocating a forum for lots of pornographic blather, but it seems that many questions re: relationships deal with topics of safe sex, sexual techniques, sexual communication, positions, and other items specific to the bedroom or backseat. Would you support such a forum under Y! Answers? Or is that just setting a precedent for disaster? ;)

Best answer:

Answer by v-ballchick_26
no not really

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Does ANY other woman out there have to deal with this?


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Question by Ruby Babby: Does ANY other woman out there have to deal with this?
So, I kicked my husband out on his a** a while back because I just couldn’t take the lying, the boozing, the snoring, the farting, the stinky feet, the yellow & cracked toenails, the sleeping till noon every day, the loser friends he always had over, his disappearing & going on a three day drinking binge during mardi gras, his stupid pranks, his horrible open-grave breath, him wearing a deer skin loin cloth around the house, his giant collection of Hustler magazines, the sonic boom burping, etc., etc. So we’ve been trying to work it out and have been ‘dating’ a few times a week. Now he’s hinting around he wants sex tonight. Should I let him? I can make him take a shower and stuff a breath mint in his mouth first but he acts like a caveman when we ‘slam the clam’ (his little saying for sex), stabbing me for hours on end until he explodes all over my face, wall, chest, hair, sheets and pillows. Then he rolls off, farts and yells “my complements to the chef” then passes out and snores so loud I can’t sleep. Am I alone here? Please, for the love of God, let there be someone else that shares my misery and tell me what to do.

Best answer:

Answer by Just Me
Um…leave his nasty a$ $ and don’t look back.

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Q&A: Is there really such thing as a “friend zone” in dating?

Question by .: Is there really such thing as a “friend zone” in dating?
I seem to have trouble distinguishing between the friend zone and who i can ask out. This is because i have quite often been with girls and we were great friends and then i would find out she liked me.

People always say “careful not to get her in the friend zone or else she will be a no-go zone”

But then why do you hear that the best relationships started off as friends first?

Can you really be just “friends” if you find each other attractive and fun to hang around?

How do u tell when you really ARE in a friend zone?

Best answer:

Answer by wowilovetheworld!?
yes there is sooo a friend zone
it is hard to tell weather you are in it though
i have put guys in my friend zone
it basically means you care about someone too much to waste your friendship on a relationship

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Do you think there is a chance, after what was said?

Question by E. Danni: Do you think there is a chance, after what was said?
I like this woman who is 33yrs old, I’m 23. I’ve known her for a couple months now. I asked her out on a date in a passive manner (she likes it when things are questioned and answered passively), she was like “let’s go get seafood” and I was like “sure. When would you like me to pick you up and take you there?” (implying date). We set up a time. Now I’m supposed to pick a place for us to go on sunday.. but I don’t know what she likes.. so I followed my friend’s advice “Well, since you don’t really know her and you don’t know what she wants..why don’t you ask her, do you want to do something fun or something romantic?” = yes, i text her this. It has been sent and now I feel like the dumbest dude on the planet.. she’s said she wanted to be friends before, and then she’s flirted with me and told me “these last few texts you’ve been taking our friendship to a different level.. let’s meet up this weekend.. ;) ” I’m so confused as to what she’s trying to pull.. and I feel like asking her if she wanted to do something fun or romantic messed up my chances of dating or even hooking up with her.. what do you think?

Best answer:

Answer by Mooninites
meh don’t sweat it. just don’t worry about it and have a good date and it will work out

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Q&A: Is there something wrong with me? Erm…?

Question by An everday person: Is there something wrong with me? Erm…?
Yeah, a lot of people ask this question, so I’m going to make my plight in my own words.

I haven’t been *completely* women deprived in my eighteen years of life.

I’ve come pretty close to sex once – though, it was a lust thing. I mean, it was in another country on a one month trip. That kinda’ stuff doesn’t happen here (USA) for me, nor do I really want that. There was a blond girl that dated me earlier this year, although…her interests…were not mine. Our brains didn’t connect at any level, and we have virtually no common interests.

Throughout High School I’d be lying if I said I was a well-known popular guy. Noo, I definitely fell into the unknown. I’m not some socially incapable being – in fact, I speak to large groups/audiences with ease, as well as converse with those of all ages without the slightest hindrance.

But, I’m just not interested in most main-stream things! I love computer games. I spend half my day on the computer (mind you, if I had a girlfriend, I’d love to spend my time with her). I also love to read, and by read, I mean science fiction nonsense, the most farcical fantasy with orcs, goblins, wizards, and swords. I love it all. On the contrary to many my brethren, I exercise often. I’ve ridden my road bicycle to school and back almost twenty miles a day.

Sometimes, I take my full suspension downhill mountain bike out to the trails, and do some jumps and trial skills. When it gets really hot, I take my bicycle, hop on the city bus, and go down to the local ice skating rink where I dominate the ice (^^ I’m not thee best, but I can honestly say I’m one of the best at every session, and that isn’t trying to be some conceited ***).

I would love to think I’m a really nice guy. I’ll hold the door open for anyone (literally and figuratively), I’ll go out of my way to help someone (whether it be helping them find something they lost in a store, spend a few minutes breaking up an argument, etc (hard to think of examples when I’m writing a sort of self summary :/)).

I don’t really watch much TV, although, the year I spent in Portugal studying abroad, I did watch entire series (Scrubs, How I met your mother, Heroes, etc.) Here in America, I’ve watched my absolute favorite TV series, Stargate SG-1. Atlantis isn’t bad! Universe…I dunno. I’ll leave that opinion up to you. Star Wars is hands down awesome. C’mon – who doesn’t like Starships with lasers, add on top of that guys who can swivel their hands and throw someone against a wall? Lord of the Rings is awesome. Jurassic Park? Hell yes! Office Space? Catch me if you Can? Pride and Prejudice? Stardust ^^ (has a special place in my heart).

Anyways. I get a car in a few days, along with my license. Maybe this will help? I’ve always felt not being able to drive a girl to a date kinda’ spoils the whole ‘date’ ideal.

Well – here’s two pics of me – you can just press the next button to go the second photo. One was a few weeks ago, this one a few days ago. I didn’t try to pretty up in either, as that’s what she would get half the time. No point in doing some amazing camera shot to fake how I look 24/7. If it’s my looks – tell me! At least I can rest in peace knowing there’s nothing I can do about it.

To sum it up, since I’ve been asking Yahoo Answers, I always get the “Patience, the right one will come.” It’s been three years and she still eludes me :/. I comprehend that I’m eighteen (a very early stage of life), but there’s no remedy but the company of special someone when you see people together everywhere. I was really reminded of this when I went to Disneyland last Friday.

Thanks people. Honesty is welcome, as fluffing up what you really think doesn’t help me.

http://i663.photobucket.com/albums/uu356/spasemnspiff/Me.jpg

Best answer:

Answer by Annie
No theres nothing wrong with you. Your cute! Bet someone in your life has a crush on you. You just have to put yourself out there. Mix with people.

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Q&A: Are there people that think “true love” and “relationships” exist?

Question by Steen K: Are there people that think “true love” and “relationships” exist?
Because it all seems to be casual sex these days

Best answer:

Answer by Jack
I don’t give a f.cuck

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Is there any way to bring love back into a long distance relationship?

Question by : Is there any way to bring love back into a long distance relationship?
Okay, so. I’m 14, a guy. I’m a *lot* more mature than most people my age, definitely mature enough to experience ‘true love’. I’m in love, and I mean *love* with a girl, that lives 8? Hours drive away, she’s only 13, though, but yet again, extremely mature. We’ve been in a relationship for coming up on 8 months now. The only time we get to see each other, is during the holidays.. So we’ve only ‘met’ once. But, I stayed with her for a week. :3
We are both rather emotional people… I hate saying this, but we are what most people would call “emos”.
Yet again, may I stress, that we are both far by mature enough to know what true love is.

Anyway, my question. “Is there any way to bring love back into a long distance relationship?”. I love her, I really, really do and I would do literally *anything* in my power to make things work, but the problem is, is that I have started ‘not feeling’ as special. This has consisted for at least 2 months, and I’ve been able to figure out, that it is most likely that the passion has faded, which from my research seems like a common thing. She understands why and how I don’t feel special, so yeah.
The other problem – The one that brought me here – Is that, recently I have been paying a large amount of attention to my feelings. Back ‘in the day’, whenever she said “I love you”, to me, I would feel amazing, and I would really FEEL it. But now it’s just like, “I love you”, “I love yoou too.”, or maybe even something as lesser.
So anyway, that’s pretty much saying, I’m not “FEELING the love”. It IS there, I am more than determined to do *anything* I can to make this work. Giving up is *not* an option.

Okay, now to the question; What do/can I do? Previous sources, I found, said that I should just ‘break up’ with her… But, those sources were to do with close distance relationships… With long distance, we both have something AMAZING to look forward to – Seeing one another. So, leaving her I don’t find as an option.
As a direct question; Is there *ANYTHING* I can do, *ANYTHING* at all, to make me “feel the love” for her, again?

More details;
When I first met her, it was through both of our best friends (we have/had the same best friend), and at the time, she had a boyfriend. She chose to love me, through him, though. Eventually she broke up with him. Not long later, one of her other best friends, had a crush on her, and it was really hard for her to turn him down… So one of her other friends, answered the question, “Will you ‘go out’ with me”, for her, with a “yes”… And she didn’t tell me. So she was pretty much cheating. I didn’t mind in the end though.
Another incident, with me. One other night, I was up late, and I couldn’t sleep, and feeling rather, ‘tired’ and ‘silly’.. And I was talking to one of my other chick friends, who now lives in ACT. And she looked after me, and showed me that she cared about me. So, typical human response – I grew a crush for her. The very next day, I told my girlfriend immediately, telling her that I do NOT want this crush… Because I wanted to be with her. Eventually the crush on the other chick faded.
I also.. I know, you readers will find this hilariously stupid of me, and us.. But I have purposed to this girl, and we’ve had several (many), talks about our kids, when we have them. :3

This girl, means more than the world to me, and as said, I will do *anything* to make things work.

That’s most of the important details… I strongly apologise for the “wall of text”, and thank you so much in advanced if you can answer the question. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Is there *ANYTHING* I can do, *ANYTHING* at all, to make me “feel the love” for her, again?

Best answer:

Answer by Palavo
be patient is the 1 st thing….your not old enough to move with her…so you just have to wait….
2nd and most important start ACCEPTING the answers your to young….there IS a reason on why people are gonna tell you this….you will fall in love COUNTLESS times by the time you will reach our ages….even before you finish with your education….
so dont worry on how mature you are…enojoy what you got now and dont be affraid to be hurt…. bthats life… ;)

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When it comes to friends/online friends, does it really matter if they’re physically there or not?

Question by mexicanboy18: When it comes to friends/online friends, does it really matter if they’re physically there or not?
I’ve been in therapy for over a year trying to fix my social anxiety and depression. Both are pretty much cured. I know have tons of friends to talk to in college, and I don’t feel alone and like an outcast anymore. I’m even involved with a special group at school, and I’ve hung out with a few friends at school.

I also have tons of online friends, and even though they’re not physically there, I feel like I do know them in real life. Plus, I’ve talked to many of them for months, and a few of them have my phone number. I plan to meet 2 of my closest online friends in less than 5 years. My best friends ever are from online, and neither live in California like I do. One of them lives in India. I even got my first girlfriend online, and if she hadn’t made me break up with her, I would’ve met her as soon as I got my driver’s license.

Here’s the issue: my therapist and group therapist both feel that friendships over the internet don’t really count because you can’t see them or hang out with them someplace, especially since I might not even meet them in real life. They even said I never actually “had a romantic relationship” with my ex-girlfriend. To me, that doesn’t matter, and it’s not like I’m replacing people at home with online friends. I want my therapists to respect that my online friends are just as real as the ones here in my town.

Do my therapists have the better point or do my ideas matter most to myself? I’m 19, btw.

VIVA LA RAZA!
Don’t worry, I’m not replacing my life with the web. Like I said, I’m doing tons good socially offline.

Best answer:

Answer by ๑Sαяαн๑
I think you & your therapists are right in your respective point of view

What matters most is the working of a relationship.. if online friendships are helping & supporting you & you’re lucky enough to get good friends then there’s nothing wrong in spending time & sharing your happy & sad moments with your net buddies

However, your therapists are concerned about the *possibility* of over-doing the web activity.. they want you to spend more time with offline people ‘cuz most of the times you have to face your offline life after all

Since you’re successfully befriending people here so your online life is just as important as your offline life

*Balance* is the *key word*

Edit:
That’s good.. since you’re satisfied so I don’t think that you’ve to change your style then

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