I need some REAL help and advice on this ?

Question by Peter: I need some REAL help and advice on this ?
Okay, so I’ve been cyber dating this guy for several months now. And we haven’t meet in real life yet, nor have we done cams… [and i know he's a real person.. so please no rambling bout that =S]

And today he told me he wanted to go on cam, but I told him no because I don’t have a face on. [makeup] I’ve seen pictures of him, and I can clearly tell he’s not skinny, but not fat either. I am 5’6″ and 230 pounds =S [yes, i know i know, its big =/] I don’t have flabby rolls that majorly stick out or anything, my body is more ‘thick’ and stuck together. And we both think it’s time to take our ‘cyber dating’ thing up a bit, if you know what I mean. =P However, I think he thinks I’m a super sexy women, you know.. skinny, hot ect… I’m not that bad looking in the face, kinda pretty =P So when he asked to go on cam I jokingly told him that I’m conscious about my “fatness” … and he laughed and stuff. But I told him I would go on tomorrow. And now I’m scared for tomorrow. lol.

See, the only place I can get internet in my room is on a certain point on my bed… so I would have to sit down… I’m just so scared he will see my *real* body image and not be ‘in the mood’ so to say.

And basically that is it. haha ^^

So any advice to help me get through with this ?? Please no sarcastic responses, this is real life stuff =S

Thanks ! x0x

Mwah ! :*
@ John

Well, if you REALLY want to know my personal life…

I have 2 jobs and schooling. [non are online >:| ]

I do NOT sit on my ‘couch’ acting like some hot chick, when I know I’m not… I AM loosing weight from running around with the 2 jobs and Uni… I’m up at 4 a.m. and don’t get home until about 10 p.m…. so at the end of the day I am really stressed and tired, who the heck wants to go running/workout after that ?? Get real.

I’m sure your not that great looking, which is why you apparently do nothing but post stupid responses.

Best answer:

Answer by cdawg22
hahaha get a life!!!!

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Help needed in a situation: dealing with some EXTREME disrespect from a “friend”, making me very uncomfortable?

Question by Scarlet: Help needed in a situation: dealing with some EXTREME disrespect from a “friend”, making me very uncomfortable?
Sorry about the length of this question in advance. I would really appreciate some advice from you guys.

I am a 26 year old girl. I have been in three “serious” relationships, 2 with men, and one with a woman. My current boyfriend knows about my past and he is very supportive. I consider myself heterosexual because of my current relationship, but like I said, I HAVE had a serious relationship with a girl about four years ago, which lasted a little over a year.

My boyfriend’s best friend and his girlfriend hang out with us allllll the time. Let’s just call this girl T. My boyfriend DID let it slip to them that I have had a girlfriend before in a drunken state. I don’t mind, it’s not a secret.

T is not my type of person, but I love my boyfriend and I want to spend time with him and these people come over to our house a LOT, so I try to make the most of it.

Ever since T has found out that I like(d) girls, she (having a bit of an alcohol problem) has come on to me almost every weekend. She constantly tells my boyfriend she is going to make out with me. It makes me extremely uncomfortable. I am definitely NOT attracted to her AT ALL and even if I was it wouldn’t matter, I am in a relationship and I find that kind of behavior very very disrespectful.

This has been going on for MONTHS. Last weekend at the bar, she literally grabbed the back of my head and stuck her tongue in my mouth while her boyfriend took a picture with his camera phone. I was in shock. I ran to the bathroom, sat in a toilet on the stall, and cried. (I know I am a sissy, but I felt disgusted and violated.) I pretended like I wasn’t crying, but I grabbed my boyfriend and told him we had to leave.

This weekend, we were tailgating at a local college game, and lo and behold, T and her man were there, along with a bunch of our other friends. T told everyone how we “made out” at the bar and that we were going to make out again.

Then, you won’t believe this, she grabbed the back of my head and tried sticking her tongue in my mouth again!! I pushed her off and told her I was getting over the flu.

The stadium had a bunch of porta-potties and I went into one. T followed me INTO the porta potty and before I could tell her I had to pee, leave me alone, she said “I’m going to sit in here with you and we can tell everyone we were making out!!”

I left the porta-potty, ran to my boyfriend, told him I was sick, and that we had to go home.

These people live two doors away from us, and I can’t take this behavior. It is making me sick. I want her to stay as far away from me as possible, but I don’t want my boyfriend to have to give up his friend. I am at a loss, but this situation is stressful and embarrassing.

Can anyone here give me any advice?? Thank you so much.

*LF

Best answer:

Answer by tnoia
Be honest with her, tell her in the nicest way possible that you are not attracted to her and you don’t want to do anything with anyone else while you are in a relationship.

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Some tips on the “Approach”? Girls and Guys?

Question by Sjpüpål: Some tips on the “Approach”? Girls and Guys?
So, I always, ALWAYS have NO IDEA how to approach a new girl (or any girl) to start a conversation.

How do you just approach a girl? Mainly, how do you START the conversation? That’s where my mind is completely BLANK.

Any tips? Ideas? How I go about this?

ALSO

I’m in Japan now with soo many cute girls here, especially here in Tokyo in Roppongi and Harajuku. There are COPIOUS amounts of cute girls, but I have NO IDEA how to start a conversation.

All my friends are like “you HAVE to get a japanese girlfriend OR you at least have to go on ONE date”

I WOULD LOVE to do this, but again I have no Idea how to start talking to them??

I only speak basic Japanese, which IDK if that’s an issue.

Any of you have any stories, tips, “trick” whatever to get a conversation started?

I just would feel too odd going up an being like “oh, your dress is really cute” or “so where you headed to”

I DON’T KNOW AND IT’S SOOO FRUSTRATING! lol

Best answer:

Answer by lickmaee
I like guys who are confident and outgoing. I guess I’m saying just go up to one of them and start conversation. Or perhaps surprise them so when they’re not looking at you then start talking to her.

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Q&A: Why must some of my friends and family get on my case about my younger boyfriend?

Question by Alex Z: Why must some of my friends and family get on my case about my younger boyfriend?
My bf and I have been together for almost 2 years and we recently moved in together(I am childless). I am 48 and he is 27. We get along great and we are very much in love. He is perfect for me in every way, very intelligent, very handsome, funny and mature well beyond his years. I’m in great health and great shape and everyone tells me I look “beautiful” and no one thinks I am over 35 because of how I look. The sex is amazing. Trouble is, some people in my family and some friends keep calling me a “cougar” or “cradle robber” and say this relationship won’t last because I’m so much older than my boyfriend. Or they claim he is cheating or will dump me for someone his age, or they ask inappropriate questions about sex.

Why do people have to be so judgmental and accuse me of being a mental case or be so negative about our relationship? At least my mother has always been very supportive, probably because she is 8 years older than my father. But 2 of my cousins and some friends say some of the dumbest things as part of their “advice” or spread vicious rumors. And they are such hypocrites since some of their relationships have more problems or have ended while me and “Alex” are very happy. Why must people be like this and is there any way to get them to stop? Nothing they say will do anything to end this relationship, but I am just getting a headache from it all, and my cousin has tried to “intervene” a few times to “save” me which lead to a huge fight last time and we are no longer talking. I’m in this for the long-term. Any advice?
Why is this arrangement considered so “bad” or “wrong”? Men do it all the time and it is considered normal.
No, he has his own money!

Best answer:

Answer by Dantaya M
They’re obviously jealous!!

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Why do some pro-lifers act like having a child should be your punishment for having “irresponsible sex”?

Question by Tectonic French Toast (w/syrup): Why do some pro-lifers act like having a child should be your punishment for having “irresponsible sex”?
Isn’t this sending the wrong message to the little ones?

I’ve seen alot of questions about abortion, and a large part of the answers go along the lines of “you made your bed, lie in it” or “you’re just going to have to DEAL with the consequences of having sex!!!”. Always there is something about the Bible and God giving us what we deserve and so on.

So, having a child is some sort of punishment for having irresponsible sex? How would your child feel about that?

Best answer:

Answer by ABF
obviously they see their own children as a kind of punishment – either that or they’re miserable and want everyone to be equally so.

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Im a black male who love dating latin chicks. 4 some reason my relationship with them never last 4 long “help”

Question by 305USER: Im a black male who love dating latin chicks. 4 some reason my relationship with them never last 4 long “help”
Is it me or they just dont give them all when they are dating outside of their race ?

Best answer:

Answer by marz
maybe they are not meant for you,or maybe there are some traits that theyve been looking for a man,or maybe they just want to have fun,….

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Some Important Things to Know When Matchmaking in Liverpool

Some Important Things to Know When Matchmaking in Liverpool

Free online dating has been one of the leading ways of matchmaking in Liverpool. Plenty of fish is in the lead when it comes to matchmaking for free in Liverpool. This way of meeting people is especially popular because it comes with very many advantages. Some of the advantages include the following. There are very few requirements and, all you need is access to the Internet. You can meet somebody in the comfort of your own space. Many singles in Liverpool have their personals and profiles waiting to be matched. Compatibility tests ensure that you are matched to the most suitable person. Services for online dating in Liverpool employ great technology to ensure that matches are made right. While registering, you will give all the information necessary. The process is very easy and, with a username and a password, you will be registered. You can then take a compatibility test. Plenty of fish refers to its system of testing as, relationship chemistry predictor. The following are some of the factors they consider when deciding on compatibility. The first thing is self confidence. This plays a major role to determine the kind of relationships a person will have.

Singles that go for matchmaking, want a person or partner who is confident about themselves; this is the basis of a strong relationship. Another matchmaking factor is family orientation. This is considered to determine what individuals think about family life. You want to be matched to a person of similar beliefs and values. Matchmaking in Liverpool using the online way is pretty exciting. The other criteria that will determine matchmaking this way is self control. This is paramount to a relationship and, partners must seem to be similar in this aspect. Social openness and dependency is also considered. Another thing that is considered by plenty of fish is easygoingness. There are very many other aspects that will determine online matchmaking in Liverpool. Matchmaking in Liverpool happens in other venues of entertainment. It is the home of art and culture and singles make connections all the time. Among many others, Liverpool museums attract many as they enjoy pieces history. Other places that people visit are Walker art gallery, Merseyside maritime museum and more. If you are a lover of theatre, check out Playhouse, Unity and Empire.

They entertain singles all the time as they meet interesting people. If you are a church person, you will find great matches as you mingle with other faithful in Liverpool. The church scene is very vibrant and some popular churches include the Anglican cathedral and the metropolitan cathedral. Singles who are into sports visit many sports attractions. This is the home of the country’s most successful football club. It also hosts the world’s most famous steeplechase. It is the heart of England’s golf coast. All these activities facilitate matchmaking in Liverpool. It is fun to seek a match when you have patience and optimism. All you have to do is to search for a good place near you. There is no doubt that you will find the match you are looking for.

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Why do some women make up any excuse they can to avoid the good guys?

There seem to be a lot of women who whine that a good man is hard to find; however, when they actually do find a good guy, then they do just about everything to avoid dating, let alone being in a relationship with him.

Why is this? Is it a low-self-esteem issue, where the woman thinks she isn’t “good enough” to be with a man who is good to her? Does she have a delusional belief that a healthy, confident, well-adjusted man is “boring” and “too nice”? Is she lying about wanting a good guy, when in reality she enjoys men who are scumbags?

What’s with the hypocrisy?

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