What does a girl mean when she says “I am not really into making new friends”?
Question by f0Xins0X: What does a girl mean when she says “I am not really into making new friends”?
I have been talking to this girl since quite sometime now (like around a month). She knows what I think of her. I told her how much I like her on gtalk. Face to face, we never talked about that. But well, we were still talking. Yesterday she told me that she wasn’t really into making new friends. What could she possibly mean?
1) That she needs more time
2) That she thinks I am nice and all, but would never date me
3) That she wants it all to stop
4) Something else !
Best answer:
Answer by BeauBear
i think 1 but also i think that maybe she doesnt like 2 meet new people..although i dont kno who wouldnt like 2 meet new people. but mybe she has a hard time making new friends
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What does “just looking to make friends” really mean?
Question by mummybird: What does “just looking to make friends” really mean?
Also, what does it mean when a girl say’s she’s “not looking for a relationship”.
Is she already married, asexual, or just playing hard to get.
Or is she just simply not interested (in me)?
Best answer:
Answer by Play nice, children
She doesn’t like you like that. Sorry hun.
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Q&A: Is there really such thing as a “friend zone” in dating?
Question by .: Is there really such thing as a “friend zone” in dating?
I seem to have trouble distinguishing between the friend zone and who i can ask out. This is because i have quite often been with girls and we were great friends and then i would find out she liked me.
People always say “careful not to get her in the friend zone or else she will be a no-go zone”
But then why do you hear that the best relationships started off as friends first?
Can you really be just “friends” if you find each other attractive and fun to hang around?
How do u tell when you really ARE in a friend zone?
Best answer:
Answer by wowilovetheworld!?
yes there is sooo a friend zone
it is hard to tell weather you are in it though
i have put guys in my friend zone
it basically means you care about someone too much to waste your friendship on a relationship
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Does Internet REALLY connect people?
Question by Get a LIFE!!!!!: Does Internet REALLY connect people?
I’ve always felt that “Online Networking” takes you a step away from your personal self. ..
I hardly know people who’d attend social events and actually meet their relatives rather than spending time chatting on the “social networking sites”
What d’you think ??
Nerd Next Door: Really..spiritual connection? LOL
Internet has made my language outrageous..And whatever connections I’ve made are nothing but superficial …
Come to think of it .. it doesn’t REALLY connect..it pretends to..but doesn’t do it ACTUALLY
Best answer:
Answer by Scott Evil
yes
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Q&A: Can we really re-build our relationship?
Question by ysm: Can we really re-build our relationship?
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now. She is a senior and just went through the stress of her finals. Plus the idea of finding a job, and the stress of start repaying for her student loan. We are both very religious and kept our relationship “dry” all the way because we both know we are husband/wife potential. One night things were out of control and almost the worts happened. This was after we read books about theology of the body, etc the thing is that she told me she lost confindence in us because we have lost control more than one time and we need to challenge each other. She told me that she thinks her feelings towards me changed and she does not know if she loves me or not. I said that if she wanted to break up I’d make that easy for her because I love her and I don’t want her to have a difficult break up. She said: No, I do not want to break up. I want to give us an opportunity and we have to rebuild our relationship again based on the principles we know.
Best answer:
Answer by trinity15227
sounds like she wants sex more
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Do really attractive guys ever “go for” plus size girls?
Question by sheerah: Do really attractive guys ever “go for” plus size girls?
I consider myself to be a confident attractive woman. I am a plus size-not huge or anything but definitely not “thin”. I still find it hard though to approach or start conversations with very attractive, fit guys. There is a guy at the cafe at work that is a manager/cashier. I see him almost every day and I recently noticed him smiling at me and saying hello more. I get all flustered when I see him. I have a major crush on him but I cant think of what to say or do or if I should even do anything. I must admit, I sometimes catch myself thinking “guys like that never date plus size women”. I want to talk to him but how to do so in a checkout line while he’s ringing me up? not a lot of time especially if there are people behind me. what should I say w/out sounding desperate or slutty? (not gonna pass him my number on a dollar or something) thanks:)
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I dont know how to get a pic of me up here-I tried to post a link to my facebook photos-hopefully it works
I am the girl on the far right in the multi colored top next to girl in yellow shirt
I am the girl on the far right in the multi colored top next to girl in yellow shirt
I am the girl on the far right in the multi colored top next to the girl in yellow shirt
Best answer:
Answer by Alex M
don’t have facebook
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Q&A: I really do need advice and your perspective on this situation: How does he feel about me? (CAUTION: long)?
Question by Chapstick Girl ♥: I really do need advice and your perspective on this situation: How does he feel about me? (CAUTION: long)?
I’m going to lay out everything that I have observed. I’m not gonna tell you things that favor into him liking me, I am just gonna say the whole. If I didn’t show the whole truth, then your answers wouldn’t be much help, right? They would be more bias about what I told you…
Anyway, let’s call him Horatio because that’s a cool name and it’s nothing like his. :] I guess you could call our relationship “love/hate” even though we are just friends. You’ll see why after I’m done telling you the story.
So, I guess it basically all started a couple if months ago… in October 2008 or November, I don’t recall… I was sitting near him in Science and we started talking more. We became friends. Kicking each others feet; inside jokes; blah blah blah… It was then when I started having feelings for him, but they were unsure feelings. I didn’t know if it was just a false shadow influencing my mind. I didn’t think so deeply about him until December came along and so did our initiating event. This girl named “Sarah” had gotten me to be sad. The way that came about was that she called me fat and said I was a “baby” because I was upset with her. My friends were laughing like it was funny which only damaged my feelings more. I came into English class with that stupid frown and “Sarah” just had to tell everybody that I was sad and she didn’t know why. (Ugh…) So, “Horatio” asked me what was wrong many, many times and I heard that he asked about me to “Sarah”, also. I basically forgived her by then. (Actually, I just didn’t give a hell what she said because it’s just a negative untruth.)
He IMed me later and we talked, I pretended nothing was wrong. Blah Blah Blah. The next day, I put that I was sad on my Facebook status, and just as I was about to take it down (feeling like an idiot) he IMed me once again, but asking what was wrong this time around. Eventually, I opened up all my self-esteem issues and that crap. He comforted me saying I was “awesome” among other things that I just don’t remember. We decided to call each other “best buddy” and we even had a promise we were supposed to sign, but I never gotten around to it. We even actually had a fight where I said he didn’t care about me and he got mad as a joke and I got seriously mad and then he got seriously mad and it was just horrible, but I stopped it because I never want to fight with him. We also exchanged phone numbers (btw, he asked me… well, I asked him before, but it was soo awkward… and he didn’t tell me. 
) and texted a lot.
I’m gonna fast-forward through a lot of junk and just say we’ve drifted apart as some do. I don’t IM him or text him hardly ever, anymore. He sits right next to me in Science now and “Horatio” and this guy always steal my stuff, tell me to shut up,etc. He’ll scribble all over my papers and write “loser” sometimes and laugh. The guy will say something stupid about me and Horatio will laugh, but when I insult him back there is no laughing about what I said even if it was clever or just as stupid… I talk a lot and every time I’ll try to say something Horatio will be like “shhh”, but smile. It really irritates me and I told him he was a “bully” several times just joking, but still trying to get my point across. He does it ever so often and it is directed only toward me… Ughness.
So, today, I said something and Horatio did his “shhh” thing once again and “Bethany” was like, “Oh, um… flirting.” Awkward silence between “Horatio” and I… and then she apologized for pointing out the uncomfortable. Then, we moved on to the delightful subject of who “Horatio” had a crush on. He only said it was a girl and when asked if it was someone in the class he said “no”. He said “no” to every girl that we listed, including me, which was nearly every girl in our grade (which she was… he said.). I told him that he could tell me because I was an expert at keeping secrets (the truth) and that he knew he could trust me. He just look and me and said “no” lightly. (I think?) “Bethany” said a lot of times that she thought he liked me. Then, she whispers to me, “I think he likes you because we were flipping through his notebook and there was an “Ode to Cassandra”. Maybe she was mistaken because he wrote an “Ode to China” for class and I guess you could mistake that for my name at a quick glance. I think that “Horatio” was looking at us as she was whispering that to me, but I can’t be too sure. It’s just an insignificant detail anyway, right? He left early from school and my friend “Kelly” moved up into his seat which was behind “Bethany” who was to the right of me. “Bethany” was talking about how she really thought he liked me and “Kelly” asked if I would’ve have been disgusted. I said no. He’s not an ugly guy– which “Bethany” explained for me. Hah.
Now, with that, I should also tell you a big thing that also contributes to this situation: the “other girls”. My friend “Massie” is friends with him and always stops by his locker to tal
talk to him. He actually laughs at her jokes. I’m almost positive she doesn’t like him, though. There are a handful of girls who would tell you he’s awesome and that they “love” him, that’s including “Bethany” and my other friends. When they say to him that they love him, he just awkwardly says nothing. He said before that he thought it was weird. He picks on them like he does to me, but I guess it’s milder… in a way. He’s really tall so he’ll get on his tippy-toes and get up “in your grill”… homie. He does that to everyone, but he just does his other mean things to me, often.
That’s ’bout it. Advice? Opinions? I need you whole analysis.
Thanks. :]
I must admit the whole not texting thing was my fault. He would text me, but my phone took forever to send messages and sometimes they wouldn’t send at all.
Also, I forgot to say, yesterday, he texted me when he was in church and bored and we started texting back-and-forth. It showed that he was thinking about me… right?? Right?! Hah… Maybe not, but he did text back pretty quick so I don’t think he was talking to anyone else, but you can never be too sure. I didn’t text him back after one message so I ended the conversation kind of, mysteriously… haha. Today, I texted him again, but he hasn’t messaged back.
He’s actually really sweet and mature, but he jokes around a lot. He’s a good Christian and goes to church maybe three times (?) a week… I don’t even go to Church, but I love God. He doesn’t cuss. He has straight A’s… and everything else that is good. If you’d meet him, you’d understand why everyone thinks he’s awesome.
BTW, i used the name Horatio because I made-up a character named “Horatio Sanchez” today as joke. I was like, “I have a crush on Horatio Sanchez…” I don’t know anyone with a name close to that.
Best answer:
Answer by Snapple.
Hmm, this kid sounds immature but there’s no doubt he likes you. Guys do that when they realize they have blown it. They act mean and tough and the attitude level rises just to see if you’ll take it lightly and maybe they’ll find hope in your reactions. Hope that the feeling is mutual.
But what exactly do you want to know? Tell more about how he is exactly.
Wow he seems pretty, alright. But aww girl are you blind?! HE LIKES YOU! Boys don’t text girls if they don’t like them. And if he initiates the conversations, that’s a major indication that he does!
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When it comes to friends/online friends, does it really matter if they’re physically there or not?
Question by mexicanboy18: When it comes to friends/online friends, does it really matter if they’re physically there or not?
I’ve been in therapy for over a year trying to fix my social anxiety and depression. Both are pretty much cured. I know have tons of friends to talk to in college, and I don’t feel alone and like an outcast anymore. I’m even involved with a special group at school, and I’ve hung out with a few friends at school.
I also have tons of online friends, and even though they’re not physically there, I feel like I do know them in real life. Plus, I’ve talked to many of them for months, and a few of them have my phone number. I plan to meet 2 of my closest online friends in less than 5 years. My best friends ever are from online, and neither live in California like I do. One of them lives in India. I even got my first girlfriend online, and if she hadn’t made me break up with her, I would’ve met her as soon as I got my driver’s license.
Here’s the issue: my therapist and group therapist both feel that friendships over the internet don’t really count because you can’t see them or hang out with them someplace, especially since I might not even meet them in real life. They even said I never actually “had a romantic relationship” with my ex-girlfriend. To me, that doesn’t matter, and it’s not like I’m replacing people at home with online friends. I want my therapists to respect that my online friends are just as real as the ones here in my town.
Do my therapists have the better point or do my ideas matter most to myself? I’m 19, btw.
VIVA LA RAZA!
Don’t worry, I’m not replacing my life with the web. Like I said, I’m doing tons good socially offline.
Best answer:
Answer by ๑Sαяαн๑
I think you & your therapists are right in your respective point of view
What matters most is the working of a relationship.. if online friendships are helping & supporting you & you’re lucky enough to get good friends then there’s nothing wrong in spending time & sharing your happy & sad moments with your net buddies
However, your therapists are concerned about the *possibility* of over-doing the web activity.. they want you to spend more time with offline people ‘cuz most of the times you have to face your offline life after all
Since you’re successfully befriending people here so your online life is just as important as your offline life
*Balance* is the *key word*
Edit:
That’s good.. since you’re satisfied so I don’t think that you’ve to change your style then
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