I got a “dating” dilemma..oh Lord, need general advice.?
Question by Jeff M: I got a “dating” dilemma..oh Lord, need general advice.?
Ok..dont arrest me. There once was this little gal at age 13-15 who had a crush on me but I she was underage, in fact I am 10 years older than her. LOL, dont freak, she is age 29 now lol!!!
In any case, she is this exotic and beautiful young lady, been married twice and now divorced twice. She had two young boys and we have a unique relationship almost like I am her protector or older brother. She told me she does not want to ever make me mad so fears telling me when she does some “bad” things but I assured her, I support her.
In any case, I have never had a girlfriend and I am 39. So when this little girl had a crush on me, I was flattered but of course never acted on it or thought of it, just thought it was nice, still do 
We got to talking about each others bad “love” life and she was the usual girl “I am fat” (which she is not) and I am not handsome (which she said I am) and being a NICE guy I finish last (which she says should not happen). We kind of crossed a new line talking about our sexual experiences (mine not very long but I got more graphic, where she was not as graphic). She then told me she had a boob job because after kids, they mess your breasts up and I blurt out “WHAT, no way let me see them?” Not as a sexual thing but a curious thing but then I was thinking sexual,. She was game to send a pic of them in a bra which by this time I was not pushing or asking again.
we talked for 2 in a half hours and “Call me anytime” BTW we have not seen each other in about 15 years other than facebook, where she found me.
In any case, as a nice guy and a man who has never felt love (just cheap sex twice) when I gave up on finding the one at age 35) I get anxious. I sent her a text the next day, she did not answer. I called, she did not answer. Texted her again because I felt bad that I was REALLY more curious about the bra pic over anything, it just came out!! I then waited and texted her 2 days later and she said she just got back from the park with her boys with a smiley face. I told her I would talk to her later and she said ok, I called she did not answer. 3rd day, I texted her, and again nothing.
I just stopped trying…DID I SCREW up??? (sorry if this was long)
No, did not have to force at all, in fact never got it, she tried to send it 3 times and my ATT phone started to show receiving a pic but it never did. I was then trying to tell her I did not want it or rather if it offended her do not send it, I do not want to push her away or make her feel uncomfortable. But not not forced at all
She lived across the street from me growing up, then she moved away and I of course moved out and got my own place.
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Answer by John
Yeah you screwed up by calling her more than once. If she doesnt pick up, thats it. Go for other girls bro
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I need some REAL help and advice on this ?
Question by Peter: I need some REAL help and advice on this ?
Okay, so I’ve been cyber dating this guy for several months now. And we haven’t meet in real life yet, nor have we done cams… [and i know he's a real person.. so please no rambling bout that =S]
And today he told me he wanted to go on cam, but I told him no because I don’t have a face on. [makeup] I’ve seen pictures of him, and I can clearly tell he’s not skinny, but not fat either. I am 5’6″ and 230 pounds =S [yes, i know i know, its big =/] I don’t have flabby rolls that majorly stick out or anything, my body is more ‘thick’ and stuck together. And we both think it’s time to take our ‘cyber dating’ thing up a bit, if you know what I mean. =P However, I think he thinks I’m a super sexy women, you know.. skinny, hot ect… I’m not that bad looking in the face, kinda pretty =P So when he asked to go on cam I jokingly told him that I’m conscious about my “fatness” … and he laughed and stuff. But I told him I would go on tomorrow. And now I’m scared for tomorrow. lol.
See, the only place I can get internet in my room is on a certain point on my bed… so I would have to sit down… I’m just so scared he will see my *real* body image and not be ‘in the mood’ so to say.
And basically that is it. haha ^^
So any advice to help me get through with this ?? Please no sarcastic responses, this is real life stuff =S
Thanks ! x0x
Mwah ! :*
@ John
Well, if you REALLY want to know my personal life…
I have 2 jobs and schooling. [non are online >:| ]
I do NOT sit on my ‘couch’ acting like some hot chick, when I know I’m not… I AM loosing weight from running around with the 2 jobs and Uni… I’m up at 4 a.m. and don’t get home until about 10 p.m…. so at the end of the day I am really stressed and tired, who the heck wants to go running/workout after that ?? Get real.
I’m sure your not that great looking, which is why you apparently do nothing but post stupid responses.
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Answer by cdawg22
hahaha get a life!!!!
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I need help with a girl problem?
Question by sk8tbdkid: I need help with a girl problem?
There is this girl that I am really good friends with. We’ve been friends for a while (since before Thanksgiving), although I’ve known her for 6 years now. Anyways, I took her to go see a movie, and while we were waiting for the “post-credits” scene to pop up, I tried to put my arm around her. She really didn’t like that, so I apologized, and we left early. We rarely spoke, and we didn’t even look at each other. I felt really embarrassed and sent here an apology over Facebook. She replied and said that she doesn’t want me to feel bad and that we just want to be friends (Which I am fine with, I just wasn’t completely sure whether she like liked me.) This past Sunday in church I was late (I was camping with family.), and went back for Sunday School (It’s a teen/adult sunday school class.) She came in and she didn’t look at me, talked to me, or otherwise acknowledged me in any way, shape, or form. After Sunday school was over, I went back into the kitchen (Which is where she helps her parents), and her and her sister weren’t there, but their parents were. I was very upset about all this, not with here, but upset with myself. I got home went into me room, amd refused to talk to my parents, and refused to let them put my cat and dog in my room. I know this is going to be embarrassing, but I cried for over 4 hours, angry and bitter with my self for making myself look like an idiot in front of her. My parents felt bad too since they were giving me dating “advice”, and they wished they hadn’t. I sent her another message on Facebook, and so far I haven’t gotten a reply (She usually writes back the next day.)
I am trying hard to build our friendship back together, and I feel horrible that because of something stupid I did, she hates me for it.
Can anybody give me some advice, or help in this?
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Answer by Christian
Well, a similar thing like this happened with me. Excpet words I said. Theres many wasy to approach this, for one. Go up to her right to her face. not on facebook. And confront her about it and ask why shes being that way and everything should be normal again and explain why you did it. I’m sure she’ll understand.
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Q&A: My sister got her Boyfriend’s name tatted , Help .. I need ADVICE ! “/?
Question by : My sister got her Boyfriend’s name tatted , Help .. I need ADVICE ! “/?
So .. Im the youngest, my sister is 22 & has a 2 year old daughter, she WAS dating the father. Anyways , this dude my sister dated wasent really the right kinda guy for her, he doesnt provide for his child, he has no job, his WHOLE family is GHETTO & wanted to move in with my sister, her baby, & the father but didnt wanna pay rent .. So to move along w| the story today we were all at the pool & my sister had on her bathing suit .. & we saw her tattoo & she had his name TATTED ! It really broke my heart, because they BROKE UP .. & she’s so confused & settles for less .. I wanna ask her ” why would you get his name ” but I dnt wanna cause anything .. Im out of words & to the end of my road of even caring. My sister wasent raised to be ghetto & go get a dudes name tatted .. Please help me, I need advice or something.
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Answer by Rauf Chowdhury
well i guess that guy and ur sis are meant to be together. well i guess u don have many choises
but making them up…
or remove that tattoo somehow cause other guys that she wud date wudnt like the tattoo..
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Do I need a Psychologist or a Therapist?
Question by Irish Lad: Do I need a Psychologist or a Therapist?
A bit of background and a horror story of ‘relationships’. I home schooled until my junior year of high school. I asked a couple girls out in high school and had a mad crush on one. In the beginning she really liked spending time with me. We had both been forced into a Catholic school that year by our parents (I wanted to go to public, she wanted to stay in the public school where she’d gone all her life),She drifted from me though after a few weeks and said she didn’t want to go out with me. I later found out that the only girlfriends she was making at the school told her she should regain her faith and not go out with me and all that.
After HS I did a year and a half of community college. Right away I hit it off with a girl and we hung out. One night after going to the movies I asked her if she wanted to go out again sometime, on an official date. She told me she liked me but that she inadvertantly dates bad boys who break her heart then she has a fling with a nice guy. She told me I was the nice guy and she’d rather have me as a friend than destroy that my making me her next fling. We chat occasionally on FB and text. She did a survey recently where you list the past 20 friends to post on your profile then answer random questions. One on me was ‘Would you date this person?’ She replied “No we’re friends”.
I had a fling with a young woman two years ago. We were talking politics in the upcoming election and railing at the other side and one thing led to another. On our first ‘date’ we went to bed together. That was my first time and second and… lol, anyway. We hung out again a couple more times, talking politics, but we never wound up in bed again. She met somebody she wanted to start a relationship with and I didn’t find that a huge problem. Still FB friends.
I want to mention in all of this tragicness I want a REAL relationship. Not a sexual fling or casual whatever. But I’m paranoid because I’m 23 now and have never had a normal relationship. Cut to the present.
There is a staffing manager at my work who is 28 to my 23 (god knows from her height and looks you’d think she’s 20 though). She’s funny, hard working, all that great stuff. Staffing managers run the staff on a daily basis but don’t have offices and usually work a regular floor position 2-3 times a week. She is from Pennsylvania originally, and a huge Eagles fan, so I mustered up some courage when she walked in yesterday and talked about the game for a moment. Before she moved on (because her moving by my area was the only private moment we’d get) I said I was thinking of heading to Applebee’s to watch the Eagles on Monday Night Football. I asked “Would you care to join me?” She had started to walk away but stopped and turned around. She smiled and said “Yeah that would be fun. I never know how I’m going to feel at the end of the day though. Tomorrow I work 9-6:30. I’ll let you know.” Now we are friends on facebook so I said ‘Find me on there and lemme know’. We don’t have each other’s numbers and I don’t work today. Also, work is a 20+ minute drive so I’m not heading out that way if it turns into a bust. I figured I’d find her when my shift ended and casually suggest getting her number so I could text her near the end of her shift. She was too busy running around the building to find her in a timeframe that would have looked natural. I sent her a message on FB with my number and telling her to give me a ring around 3 or 4 if she felt up to it. No reply to the mail but who knows. The thing is I had tentative plans with my buddy tonight. I told him what was going on and her understands but I don’t want to dangle him on a string till 4 PM to tell him yes or no.
Any suggestions on my lack of love life. What do you do on first dates, like if you’re watching football games?
Also, I was out of college for a while recently. I’ve passed/failed for four years now in two different places. I’m scared of failing. I’m scared of being nothing. I also don’t have a lot of friends. Don’t hang out with people from work but for once. Don’t get invited to the parties that everybody else does. Maybe cause I don’t send out that “I’m Mr. Partygoer” vibe. I get along with 95 percent but always feel like an outsider. Maybe cause I’m part time there. I posted a question survey about myself on FB last night and tagged 27 people of the 200 I’m ‘friends’ with to answer. So far, not one has. I feel depressed a lot lately from all this crap. Oh yeah and I’m 23, with little money, working retail, and, walking cliche, I live in my parent’s basement. It’s more like the lower level than a basement. The TV room, my bedroom, and major dining area for when a lot of guests come are all down here, but I have many coworkers my age and younger who liv
There are two girls I skipped over because one fizzled after date #2 and the other was to a baseball game with a coworker this summer while I was wheelchair bound with broken leg. We had fun but it was more a precursor to dating that went nowhere. We get along and she now has boyfriend.
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Answer by whoknowswho
I will get back to this later…I have a migraine & I cannot read a long question…and I am not sure what you are asking? Sorry…
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I need to stop my friend from telling the school my deepest secret??
Question by Catherine: I need to stop my friend from telling the school my deepest secret??
I’m a telepathic, and my “best friend” found out, and now she’s telling everyone. And the first person she told actually believed it, and she will tell the whole school and make them believe it too. I need to make sure she doesn’t tell anyone, but I don’t know how. I’m at my school right now, and we’re at an overnight thing. All these freaky things have been going on, and I was positive that my other friend was dreaming that all this stuff was going on. So I told my closeset friends that I needed their help, and so I telepathically told my friend to stop having that dream. Then she went an told people. They’ve been sleuthing around and I know they are planning something to destroy me. Can you help me figure out how to convince my friend that what she knows is very important and no one else can know anything about it?
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Tell her telepathically
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Parents you need to know this?
Question by mary: Parents you need to know this?
February 3, 2009 (RALEIGH, N.C.) — About 90,000 sex offenders have been identified and removed from the social networking Web site MySpace, company and law enforcement officials said Tuesday.
The number was nearly double what MySpace officials originally estimated last year, said North Carolina Attorney General Roy Cooper, who along with Connecticut Attorney General Richard Blumenthal has led efforts to make social networking Web sites safer for young users.
Cooper said he wasn’t surprised by the updated numbers, and demanded that MySpace and rival online networking site Facebook — which claim to have more than 280 million users combined — do more to protect children and teenagers.
“These sites were created for young people to communicate with each other. Predators are going to troll in these areas where they know children are going to be,” Cooper said. “That’s why these social networking sites have the responsibility to make their sites safe for children.”
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February 3, 2009 (RALEIGH, N.C.) — About 90,000 sex offenders have been identified and removed from the social networking Web site MySpace, company and law enforcement officials said Tuesday.
The number was nearly double what MySpace officials originally estimated last year, said North Carolina Attorney General Roy Cooper, who along with Connecticut Attorney General Richard Blumenthal has led efforts to make social networking Web sites safer for young users.
Cooper said he wasn’t surprised by the updated numbers, and demanded that MySpace and rival online networking site Facebook — which claim to have more than 280 million users combined — do more to protect children and teenagers.
“These sites were created for young people to communicate with each other. Predators are going to troll in these areas where they know children are going to be,” Cooper said. “That’s why these social networking sites have the responsibility to make their sites safe for children.”
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The attorneys general received agreements last year from MySpace and Facebook to push toward making their sites safer. Both sites implemented dozens of safeguards, including finding better ways to verify user’s ages, banning convicted sex offenders from using the sites and limiting the ability of older users to search members under 18.
Blumenthal, who received MySpace’s updated numbers Tuesday through a subpoena, said the information “provides compelling proof that social networking sites remain rife with sexual predators.” A preliminary number of sex offenders found on Facebook was “substantial,” but he said the company has yet to respond to a recent subpoena.
MySpace executives said they were confident in the technology they use to find, remove and block registered sex offenders. The company uses Sentinel SAFE, a database it created in 2006 with the names, physical descriptions and other identifiable characteristics of sex offenders that cross-references against MySpace members.
“Sentinel SAFE is the best industry solution to ensure these offenders are removed from social networks,” Hemanshu Nigam, the company’s chief security officer, said in a statement Tuesday. MySpace, which is owned by Rupert Murdoch’s News Corp., has more than 130 million active users worldwide.
A spokesman for Facebook, which claims more than 150 million active users, said Tuesday that protecting its users has always been a priority.
“We have a policy prohibiting registered sex offenders from joining Facebook,” said spokesman Barry Schnitt. “We are glad to be able to report that we have not yet had to handle a case of a registered sex offender meeting a minor through Facebook. We are working hard to make sure it never happens.”
Still, Cooper said more should be done.
“Technology moves forward quickly, and it’s important for these companies to stay ahead of the technology,” he said. “And they’re not moving fast enough for us.”
The push for better restrictions came during a time when social-networking Web sites were seeing exponential growth, with most of it coming in the form of younger users. But along with the younger members came sexual predators who would lie about their age to lure young victims.
Blumenthal and Cooper, who co-chair the State Attorney General Task Force on Social Networking, have led the charge for tougher restrictions to be placed on who joins online social-networking sites.
The Internet Safety Technical Task Force report, commissioned by the attorneys general in 2008, researched ways to help squash the onslaught of sexual predators targeting younger social-networking clients. Enhancing Child Safety & Online Technologies, a report by the task force submitted to attorneys general in December, noted was no surefire way to guarantee online child safety.
The task force also played down fears of Internet sexual predators who target children on social-networking sites. While citing other da
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