Help needed in a situation: dealing with some EXTREME disrespect from a “friend”, making me very uncomfortable?
Question by Scarlet: Help needed in a situation: dealing with some EXTREME disrespect from a “friend”, making me very uncomfortable?
Sorry about the length of this question in advance. 
I would really appreciate some advice from you guys.
I am a 26 year old girl. I have been in three “serious” relationships, 2 with men, and one with a woman. My current boyfriend knows about my past and he is very supportive. I consider myself heterosexual because of my current relationship, but like I said, I HAVE had a serious relationship with a girl about four years ago, which lasted a little over a year.
My boyfriend’s best friend and his girlfriend hang out with us allllll the time. Let’s just call this girl T. My boyfriend DID let it slip to them that I have had a girlfriend before in a drunken state. I don’t mind, it’s not a secret.
T is not my type of person, but I love my boyfriend and I want to spend time with him and these people come over to our house a LOT, so I try to make the most of it.
Ever since T has found out that I like(d) girls, she (having a bit of an alcohol problem) has come on to me almost every weekend. She constantly tells my boyfriend she is going to make out with me. It makes me extremely uncomfortable. I am definitely NOT attracted to her AT ALL and even if I was it wouldn’t matter, I am in a relationship and I find that kind of behavior very very disrespectful.
This has been going on for MONTHS. Last weekend at the bar, she literally grabbed the back of my head and stuck her tongue in my mouth while her boyfriend took a picture with his camera phone. I was in shock. I ran to the bathroom, sat in a toilet on the stall, and cried. (I know I am a sissy, but I felt disgusted and violated.) I pretended like I wasn’t crying, but I grabbed my boyfriend and told him we had to leave.
This weekend, we were tailgating at a local college game, and lo and behold, T and her man were there, along with a bunch of our other friends. T told everyone how we “made out” at the bar and that we were going to make out again.
Then, you won’t believe this, she grabbed the back of my head and tried sticking her tongue in my mouth again!! I pushed her off and told her I was getting over the flu.
The stadium had a bunch of porta-potties and I went into one. T followed me INTO the porta potty and before I could tell her I had to pee, leave me alone, she said “I’m going to sit in here with you and we can tell everyone we were making out!!”
I left the porta-potty, ran to my boyfriend, told him I was sick, and that we had to go home.
These people live two doors away from us, and I can’t take this behavior. It is making me sick. I want her to stay as far away from me as possible, but I don’t want my boyfriend to have to give up his friend. I am at a loss, but this situation is stressful and embarrassing.
Can anyone here give me any advice?? Thank you so much.
*LF
Best answer:
Answer by tnoia
Be honest with her, tell her in the nicest way possible that you are not attracted to her and you don’t want to do anything with anyone else while you are in a relationship.
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Yesterday I caught my “friend” making out with my boyfriend, I broke up with him, what do I do about her?
Question by : Yesterday I caught my “friend” making out with my boyfriend, I broke up with him, what do I do about her?
Any advice on what I should do?
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Answer by Lia
lose her, after u punch her in the face… j/k. I mean, what kind of q is that.
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I have a guy friend who is interested in me and I am in him but he won’t get another job. He’s been a courtesy clerk for 10 years and he is just not willing to find another job that gives him more pay and is better. He always complains about it and I personally wont date him until he’s better off financially. Whenever I tell him he just states that he has a job and it at least keeps the bills paid or he says he just doesn’t want to look for one right now. Any ideas as to why he’s like this and any ideas on how to get him get a different job?
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Answer by Kristin
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Q&A: Is there really such thing as a “friend zone” in dating?
Question by .: Is there really such thing as a “friend zone” in dating?
I seem to have trouble distinguishing between the friend zone and who i can ask out. This is because i have quite often been with girls and we were great friends and then i would find out she liked me.
People always say “careful not to get her in the friend zone or else she will be a no-go zone”
But then why do you hear that the best relationships started off as friends first?
Can you really be just “friends” if you find each other attractive and fun to hang around?
How do u tell when you really ARE in a friend zone?
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Answer by wowilovetheworld!?
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it is hard to tell weather you are in it though
i have put guys in my friend zone
it basically means you care about someone too much to waste your friendship on a relationship
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I’m a telepathic, and my “best friend” found out, and now she’s telling everyone. And the first person she told actually believed it, and she will tell the whole school and make them believe it too. I need to make sure she doesn’t tell anyone, but I don’t know how. I’m at my school right now, and we’re at an overnight thing. All these freaky things have been going on, and I was positive that my other friend was dreaming that all this stuff was going on. So I told my closeset friends that I needed their help, and so I telepathically told my friend to stop having that dream. Then she went an told people. They’ve been sleuthing around and I know they are planning something to destroy me. Can you help me figure out how to convince my friend that what she knows is very important and no one else can know anything about it?
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