why dont trans “men” look like men if?
Question by All She Wants Is KODI STEIN: why dont trans “men” look like men if?
thats what they go on steroids and have surgeries for?
see?
http://www.ftmfund.org/sitebuildercontent/sitebuilderpictures/IMG_7671bw2.jpg
http://daddytypes.com/archive/thomas_beatie_pregnant_ftm.jpg
http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l5weqdVkSy1qzjgceo1_500.jpg
and why do most of them have the name trevor or shane or shoun? spelt in some form but pronounced the same?
i just want my questions answered. thats all.
do trans men ever want kids? they dont want anything near their V and they get fake penises or a small prick. none that can produce sperm.
do they think about how sad or hurt their family might be? you were your moms beautiful baby girl you werent her son. so why would you hurt her? if not her, wy would you hurt someone close who was happy to call you their sister or aunt or neice or daughter, granddaughter. whatever.
do they even like women? they date trans “women”. or men who dress like women. thats not a woman.
i just wanna know. because i refuse to ask my cousin’s trans”man” friend this.
ghost wolf i didnt say trans”women” are men who dress like women. i said they date them or they date men who dress like women (transvestites)
Best answer:
Answer by Ev.JR
..Lol I can’t answer that first one.
Lmao I can’t answer that second one either.
I’m pretty sure they want kids… some of them. I guess.
Lol, there was a documentary on that where the mom was okay with her daughter wanting to be a boy and didn’t seem hurt… I’d have to disown my daughter if she ever considered changing her sex. She was born a female, a beautiful baby girl, not a boy. She’ll never be a boy or have me see her as one.
Yeah. I’ve seen this trans guy at my school trying to get with girls. Due to our schools suckish privacy level a lot of girls know “he” was born female and “his” “sister” was born a guy. So they usually just mess with “him” a little.
Not trying to offend the trans people, I put quotations around the terms because I’m trying to be nice to transgenders. So I’ll acknowledge what they want to be called.
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You’re an asshole dude. Take some advice from Bob and don’t criticize what you can’t understand. And yes you are a man no matter what you might think in your “brain”
Thomas Beatie only proves the theory that transsexualism is a joke. You’d think they would have sterilized her or something.
1.No most don’t want kids. Thank god, but the ones that do have sex with a man or “pre op” trans”woman” and get knocked up.
2.They know they would be crushing their parents dreams and heart. It would kill my dad if I ever told him I wanted to be a boy. He would be hurt and confused and blame himself.
3.Yes. One tried to hit on me. I knew she was a female because my cousin had known her when she was going to summer school and told me. So yes, some of them do like biological girls.
“do trans men ever want kids?”
Some don’t, some do. It’s a personal thing.
“do they think about how sad or hurt their family might be? you were your moms beautiful baby girl you werent her son. so why would you hurt her? if not her, wy would you hurt someone close who was happy to call you their sister or aunt or neice or daughter, granddaughter. whatever.”
Did you ever stop to think about the transman? Did you ever consider how the transman felt? Get it out of your head right now that changing your sex is something you do flippantly or just because you want to “spice things up.” He does it to correct a life of pain and torment, one much deeper than anything his loved ones have felt before. The hurt he “causes” is because his family can’t accept him. The hurt he would cause himself to please his family could drive him to suicide. Do you know the suicide rate for transsexuals? Statistics place that as high as 31%.
Think about the next time you ask a trans man or woman why they would want to “hurt their families” by transitioning.
“do they even like women? they date trans “women”. or men who dress like women. thats not a woman.”
That would depend on the transman. They can be gay, straight, bi, a, pan, etc. etc. Gender identity and sexual orientation are two separate issues entirely. And as for the snide comment that transwomen are just men in dresses… *glare*
“why dont trans “men” look like men”
Most transmen I have seen do look like men.
“do they think about how sad or hurt their family might be? you were your moms beautiful baby girl you werent her son. so why would you hurt her? if not her, wy would you hurt someone close who was happy to call you their sister or aunt or neice or daughter, granddaughter. whatever.”
Of course they think about this. But sooner or later they realize they have to disappoint their parents if they ever want to be happy. Can you honestly say you would live a life of severe depression just so your parents won’t be disappointed? Many trans people are actually suicidal until they start to transition.
“do they even like women? they date trans “women”. or men who dress like women. thats not a woman.”
Trans men commonly date cisgender women. Trans women ARE women, by the way, but because trans women are less common than cisgender women, trans men usually end up falling in love with a cisgender woman. Of course there are gay trans men too, so naturally they date men.
Why don’t trans-men look like men if they go through this all and have surgeries for it?
-Because they can’t always reach what they should be physically; technologies can only successfully change so much of them, and they are stuck with the rest.
Why do they all have the name Shoun or Trevor or some variation of it?
-I personally don’t know any trans person with those names. Mine’s Martin. Hi
Do trans men ever want kids?
-Some do some don’t. I personally do, and me and my wife have our first kid on the way by now, 6 weeks passed
He or she will be raised in such a respectful open minded family with firm bases and lots of love.
Do they think or hurt or sad their family might be?
-My family fairly told me that real respect and love is given for who the person is, not for who you want them to be. I love them for who they are, and they love me for who I am, and are only happy that I am happy too. They are thrilled with our kid to come.
Do they even like women?
-Oh yeah. A little too much actually
But I also like men.
In fairness the first picture was someone that appeared that hasn’t transitioned yet. The second picture was of Thomas Beattie while he was pregnant. He looks pretty male even though pregnant. Third picture: again, someone that hasn’t started transition. Try looking at these guys:
http://ai.eecs.umich.edu/people/conway/TSsuccesses/TransMen.html
Or how about this famous fellow:
http://www.exposurefestival.ca/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/buck-angel.jpg
It’s easy to cherry pick images to make your point. But if you want to have any credibility you’ll look at a wider variety of images, including people who have transitioned and moved on.