What can I deal w/ my dads little womanizing games?

Question by whatislove: What can I deal w/ my dads little womanizing games?
So, my story: 2ish years ago, my mom died, and ever since, my dad’s been bringing home a new lady that he meets online basically every 3 weeks or so…there have been times where he was ‘dating’ 2 of them at once even..like, we had a carnival here a few months ago, and he brought one lady on the first day and then another one on the second day and was holding both of their hands and stuff…it’s sickening b/c they *think* they’re his only one!

Not to mention the other lies he tells them…he makes up stories about all of this wonderful “fatherly” stuff he does with his children to make himself look good, and ahem…I’m one of his kids, and he barely spends any time with us at all! He told this one lady “The kids had a great Christmas. A little sad b/c they missed their mom, but they were overjoyed with their new iPods.” That made me sooo mad…how would he know if we were sad?! He didn’t even spend time with us on Christmas! He sat at his computer 95% of the day chatting with women.

And it just pisses me off b/c he takes them EVERYWHERE we go as a family…we go food shopping, one of them is there…and there’s this theatre downtown that we used to go to b/c my mom liked the shows there, and now the only time we go to a show is when he wants to impress one of his lady friends, so I can’t enjoy something I used to LOVE anymore.

And I guess honestly it just hurts to, not only see how good he is at deceiving these women into thinking he’s this wonderful fatherly and chivalrous man, but also simply because of the fact that none of these women are my mom.

No one cares what I think, and it just makes it all worse. They say he’s allowed to be reckless b/c he lost his wife…well one, he abused my mom physically and mentally even while she was majorly sick so I find it hard to believe he’s just soo torn up but I know it’s possible…and two, yeah he lost his wife, but I lost my mom, and no one cares how I feel. I’m not asking people to feel sorry for me, but it’d be nice if someone respected my wishes a little bit…like if he wants to date every woman on match.com that’s cool, but it’d be great if I wasn’t FORCED to spend time with them.

Anyway ugh. What can I do?
that should say “how can I deal…” sorry!

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Answer by Jilly
Sounds like your dad is very screwed up mentally. He needs to go to a therapist! It also sounds like he’s developed a very serious internet/sex/womanizing addiction since your mom died. This is probably mostly due to the guilt/anger/sadness that his eating him up inside. I would suggest getting away from your dad for good as soon as your old enough to move. It sounds like he’s on a very destructive path, don’t let him pull you down with him.

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Does ANY other woman out there have to deal with this?

Question by Ruby Babby: Does ANY other woman out there have to deal with this?
So, I kicked my husband out on his a** a while back because I just couldn’t take the lying, the boozing, the snoring, the farting, the stinky feet, the yellow & cracked toenails, the sleeping till noon every day, the loser friends he always had over, his disappearing & going on a three day drinking binge during mardi gras, his stupid pranks, his horrible open-grave breath, him wearing a deer skin loin cloth around the house, his giant collection of Hustler magazines, the sonic boom burping, etc., etc. So we’ve been trying to work it out and have been ‘dating’ a few times a week. Now he’s hinting around he wants sex tonight. Should I let him? I can make him take a shower and stuff a breath mint in his mouth first but he acts like a caveman when we ‘slam the clam’ (his little saying for sex), stabbing me for hours on end until he explodes all over my face, wall, chest, hair, sheets and pillows. Then he rolls off, farts and yells “my complements to the chef” then passes out and snores so loud I can’t sleep. Am I alone here? Please, for the love of God, let there be someone else that shares my misery and tell me what to do.

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Answer by Just Me
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Q&A: Is it the Hokey Cokey – or Armaggedon?

Question by : Is it the Hokey Cokey – or Armaggedon?
I campaign against porn’ and am accused of being ultra-sensitive by Jehovah’s Witnesses. At 17 years old, my friend who was brought up a JW was dating my friend and came out with us to a disco. Her father didn’t like it as he was a JW elder, but as she rebelliously went out the door she shouted ‘Well you look at page 3!’ As he had been comparing the babes in front of her previously. He turned up at the disco and made her come home. Hence I thought JWs is not the religion for me.

Years later, I was living in Ireland and met my fiance there who was a JW and invited me to the meetings with him. He was counselled for dating ‘worldly girl’ and when my picture was seen in the local paper as part of a modelling agency, I was told that JW girls would not do that. This religion is all about the ‘secret person of the heart’. I felt like a tramp for having worn a full length sparkly dress which was not revealing and red lipstick. When I said that in the UK my friend’s dad used to look at the bra-less babes on page 3, they said that he couldn’t have been a proper JW and must have been on his way out of it. Behind my back, this guy told my fiance that I was like an evil temptress come to take him away from Jehovah and that he shouldn’t be an aerobics instructor as that is where you meet girls from the ‘world’. It was also not good that I went to a U2 concert with a worldly bunch of catholic girls (who also do not like the newspaper porn’ we get in the UK).

He is punished for marrying me I think, but I am not entirely sure on this as apparently he was already dissasociated in another congregation in England before having met me, and I don’t know if this was what he was punished for.

Once married I soon learned the JW rules about headship and the fact that it is up to the family head to decide on matters of conscience. Hence if I felt degraded by a scene in a film he might be watching, I had to leave the room. When I cried, the JW book was shown to me re. the Naggers, the Weepers and the bit where it says that the bible does single out women for this counsel. Hence I had to leave the room and show no emotion.

This is the funny bit, and it is OK to laugh as my husband found hilarious as well at the time and we both laughed. Back in the Uk, married, with a baby and pregnant with second child, I was still campaigning against porn’ and got in a ding dong with the local strip club owner when I protested against him. The local newspaper was threatened with being for being sued for having printed my letter to them and had to print an apology to the lap dancing club manager. In turn this attracted the attention of a TV station who invited all Campaigners Against Porn’ to take part in a live debate, so we had one up on the pornographers. The funny bit was that one evening when I was holding the baby out in the garden with my husband and this unexplained array of beautiful lights appeared in the sky, circulating and twinkling. My neighbour thought it was a UFO and my husband panicked and said “Oh no it’s a celestial phenomenon. It’s armaggeddon! Quick get inside – you’re not baptised! The angels will find you!” And he pulled me inside and bolted the door. I told him to stop being silly as if it was armageddon, I had some questions to ask the angels and I would like to see them. Also I told him that if they wanted to kill us, I am sure that wherever we were they would find us and do so. So I unlocked the door and went back out with the baby in my arms to look at the sky. I wanted to ask them about the translation of 1 Cor 11:10 and also verse 15 as I have a query over the insertion of the words ‘sign of’ and the word ‘headdress’ instead of ‘covering’ as per the New World translation. Also I didn’t understand why I had to leave the room if what came on TV got degrading to girls and the headship thing.

A few days later, we learned that the celestial phenomenon was actually the nightclub owner having a laugh at me, as they were lazor lights on lap dancing night! My husband, who used to tell me to get out of the room one minute if I didn’t like what was on TV, had pulled me inside and locked the door when he thought it was armageddon, then I went back out again. He did laugh when he realised it was this guy the club owner! In, out, in, out, Oh the Hokey Cokey!

After his death, contrary to what I was told in Limerick congregation re. JW stance on porn’ and vanity, I attended the kingdom hall for 3 years until I was told I was extreme for expecting their elders not to be buying newspapers famous for their porn’ in the UK. On this website, I have been told I have ‘blood on my lips’, I am ‘lying’ as they don’t do that, then told I am ‘ultra-sensitive’ and need to take counsel because this ‘is a matter of conscience’.

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Answer by Oh mighty smiter
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