Help me get over her past?

I’ve been dating this woman for the last few months (we’re both 19 in college) and we get along great, but I just recently found out that she is a lot more sexually experienced that I am and it is bothering me. I’m a virgin, but I had chances to lose it in the past. I wanted to wait until it actually means something and I love someone, not neccesarily marriage, but I don’t just want to lose it because I’m horny. After hearing this she just seems dirty or something, I can’t explain it. I don’t want to feel this way and I really like her, but it is getting annoying I can’t stop thinking about how she was so loose. I just can’t fathom how she has slept around so much and thought that oral meant nothing when she did it with all those guys in high school. I really like her and I want to give us a chance, but I just can’t figure out how to get over it. I mean every time I look back I think about how I was spending my time studying, getting into college, and preparing myself for med school while she was just running around getting drunk and messing wth guys as if it meant nothing. I guess the real fear I have is that since she says all those past guys meant nothing to her then I wont/don’t mean anything to her either, I’m just another guy.

what to do to face divorce for being childless?

What should i do to face divorce because of being childless?
I 45 and husband 58 just married first time for 6 years. In the beginning of marriage,I had very hard time adjusting to his life style and his financial condition was also unstable. Because I needed to relocate to live with him,I mostly work hard and try to do all things possible for him and our home like cleaning,laundry,preparing food… I feel exhausted all the time but I never complain if this makes our life peaceful together. Howver,I dont think I can manage to have kid both in this busy life and at this age. He and his family are extremely mad at me. They said no kid for life is meaningless and tragedic for older age. So he wants divorce. I dont know what’s my fault. What should i tell them?

why are men so confused about women they love?

I have known my off and on long distance boyfriend for over six years. We have a great connection and we enjoy spending each others company.
As time has progressed and no commitment was forthcoming from him, I gave him an ultimatum and his response was and I quote “I do not want to be in a relationship at the moment”. I didn’t argue or exchange words with him. I told him I respect your decision and I completely agree with it. After that I cut all communications with him because I was hurt and needed time to heal. For over 2 months he would send long emails and try to catch me on chat. I responded to his emails with one line and blocked him from chatting with me. He then started sending text and calling. I didn’t respond.

Then a friend put up pictures of a night out on face book and there was a gentle man who had his hand around my shoulder. that night my ex got really drunk and called me I didn’t know it was him and when I answered he started going on that he made a mistake and he knew he wanted me in his life forever. I didn’t believe him so I told him that I had started seeing someone.
Then started calling more leaving messages like hi my dear love …., your number fun… he even sends thoughtful messages.

Two weeks ago my brother was critically ill and the doctors had lost hope. We were preparing for the worst. In the middle of all this he kept calling everyday just to see how I was doing. He encouraged me allot.
Then on New Year’s Eve I called to thank him for being there for me. he started telling me his future plans, he talked about marriage and having children, he asked if I was going back to my country and I told him no, he sounded so broken after that and I have not heard from him since that day which is very unlike him.
However it works out I have no regret that is one relation that made me into the strong woman I am. I still love him and I need to know if there is a future with this guy?

how to welcome my husband coming from abroad ?

Hi, i am working in singapore. our is love marriage and my husband is coming to singapore, to join me. we are married for last 7 months and bcoz of job we were in different countries and finally getting settledown in singapore. I want to welcome him a special way ? how should i make it so special that day, my husband is simple, like to spend time with family, friendly and lively man. how to make him to feel that he is so special to me, i am planning to cook his favorite food, preparing him a welcome kit , cannot take him outside bcoz he must be tired, expect these things , can another idea, what will husband expect from wife, kindly friendly answer.

My husband has changed after baby…?

I usually get great advice and support from yahoo moms so i wanted to share a little feelings i have hidden for awhile…

After one happy year of marriage with my husband we were blessed with a child.. she is 12 days old today. Ive gone through depression during my pregnancy.. its sickening to say now but i thought about dying with a child in me.. i had to hide all these feelings from my husband because i know his not .. how can i say this… like.. his not a person who will hold me and say i love you.. his the type to say “get help” dont get me wrong now.. his a great guy.. if he wasnt i would of never married him.. now i regret hiding all thoes feeliings behind..

I had a c-section due to few complication… recovering is painful and my heart cant seem to know how to be happy anymore.. i stare at my little baby girl and tear in joy and fear.. i terrified to die later and leave her behind.. i guess this fear comes from my dad passing away when i was only 10 yrs old. ive been getting very little sleep and my body and mind is exhausted.. when i got home from the hospital i was in horrible pain.. i couldnt sit and get up on my own. going to restroom was hell and i had no help. my husband did not help me with my baby the first day or the second day. he slept while i was pulling myself up from the bed to change babys diaper. He have not been preparing food for me either. i have not been able to eat anything other than fast food past 10 days. i feel weak and i can seem to find a way to talk to my husband. i am afraid this is going to start a huge argument.

i have too much mixed emotion and cant do anything.. i want to tell him how i feel but i am afraid his going to just ignore it all.. what can i do to get his attention and make him realize how horrible he has been to me..???

lol this is nasty n funny?

This is a story about a couple who had been happily married for
years. The only friction in their marriage was the husband’s habit of farting loudly every morning when he awoke.

The noise would wake his wife and the smell would make her eyes water and make her gasp for air.

Every morning she would plead with him to stop ripping them off because it was making her sick. He told her he couldn’t stop
and that it was perfectly natural. She told him to see a
doctor. She was concerned that one day he would blow his guts out.

The years went by and he continued to rip them out! Then one Thanksgiving morning as she was preparing the turkey for dinner and he was upstairs sound asleep, she looked at the bowl where she had put the turkey innards and neck, gizzard, liver and all the spare parts and a malicious thought came to her.

She took the bowl and went upstairs where her husband was sound asleep and, gently pulling back the bed covers, she pulled
back the elastic waistband of his underpants and emptied the bowl of turkey guts into his shorts.

Some time later she heard her husband waken with his usual trumpeting which was followed by a blood curdling scream and
the sound of frantic footsteps as he ran into the bathroom.

The wife could hardly control herself as she rolled on the floor
laughing, tears in her eyes! After years of torture she reckoned she had got him back pretty good.

About twenty minutes later, her husband came downstairs in his
bloodstained underpants with a look of horror on his face.

She bit her lip as she asked him what was the matter. He said, “Honey, you were right. All these years you have warned me
and I didn’t listen to you.

“What do you mean?” asked his wife.

“Well, you always told me that one day I would end up farting my guts out, and today it finally happened. But by the grace of God, some Vaseline, and these two fingers, I think I got most of them back in.

romeo and juliet act III questions?

Act 3 Scene 1

1. 1. At the beginning of the scene, why does Benvolio think that there will be a fight?
2. 2. What does Mercutio accuse Benvolio of in lines 15-30?
3. 3. When Tybalt and Mercutio first begin arguing, what does Benvolio try to get them to do?
4. 4. What does Tybalt call Romeo?
5. 5. Why won’t Romeo fight Tybalt?
6. 6. What does Mercutio think is the reason Romeo refuses to fight?
7. 7. Why does Mercutio keep repeating, “A plague o’ both your houses”?
8. 8. What does Romeo say that Juliet’s love has done to him?
9. 9. Why does Romeo call himself “fortune’s fool”?
10. 10. When Benvolio relates to the Prince what happened, what does he say Romeo tried to do before Mercutio was killed?
11. 11. What does Lady Capulet accuse Benvolio of? Why?
12. 12. What is Romeo’s punishment for killing Tybalt?

Act 3 Scene 2
1. 1. Why is Juliet so impatient for the nurse to return?
2. 2. Describe Juliet’s rapidly changing attitudes toward Romeo in this scene.
3. 3. What piece of news has upset Juliet the most?
4. 4. What does the nurse promise to do?

Act 3 Scene 3
1. 1. Explain Romeo’s reaction to the news of his banishment.
2. 2. Romeo tells Friar Laurence that the priest cannot know or understand how Romeo feels. Why?
3. 3. What argument does Friar Laurence use to prevent Romeo from killing himself?
4. 4. What does the nurse give to Romeo?

Act 3 Scene 4
1. 1. What does Capulet tell his wife to say to Juliet/

Act 3 Scene 5
1. 1. As Romeo is preparing to leave Juliet, what argument does she use to convince him to stay?
2. 2. What is it that Juliet a bit later that Romeo should leave?
3. 3. Just as Romeo is about to descend the rope ladder and leave Juliet, what does Juliet say about the way Romeo looks?
4. 4. Why does Lady Capulet think Juliet is crying?
5. 5. When Lady Capulet threatens to send someone to Mantua to poison Romeo, what does Juliet say?
6. 6. After Lady Capulet breaks the news about Paris, what is Juliet’s response?
7. 7. If Juliet’s mother does not arrange to delay the marriage, what will Juliet do?
8. 8. What is Capulet’s reaction to Juliet’s threats?
9. 9. What is the nurse’s advice to Juliet?
10. 10. How does Juliet’s attitude toward the nurse change?
11. 11. What “scheme” does Juliet devise to get rid of the nurse and to get out of the house?

Conservative vs Liberal: What would you call me?

I’m preparing for this political argument tomorrow for class and I was wondering what I would be called:

-I dont agree with abortion
-government does not interact (w/ education, health care, economy)
-individuals are allowed to keep guns
-support legal immigrants only
-respect private property
-i dont support homosexual marriage
-lower taxes
-terrorism is a threat

HOWEVER:
-i support embryonic research
-new resource outlets should be searched for
-global warming is still a prevalent threat
-no one race or group is a terrorist, no selective screening
-support the UN

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