Women are very confusing!!!!!! please help guys or girls?
ok so heres the deal my girlfriend informed me a few weeks ago that a guy she works with was harassing her. so i did what any guy would do i went up to her work and confroted him. well things escalated from there and we got into a fight. now she’s mad at me im very confused because if i did nothing she would have been pissed but i did somthing and she’s still pissed my point is what the hell did she think was gonna happen when i went to her work to confront this other guy??? i guess i was dammed if i do dammed if i don’t
I think she got mad because it could have cost her her job.
being harrassed is embarrassing. and you getting into a fight with the guy would be mortifying. you should have gone with her and sat down with the manager of the job and try to get the guy fired or something but not fight the guy.
For starters, you should never go to the place your gf works and confront another employee. Most likely she was venting her frustration to you and didn’t mean for you to act on it.
i think what she wanted was for you to be offended and offer to confront him. but by going ahead and confronting him you seem overprotective and you probably embarrassed her. women mostly just want you to listen and be really upset but not do anything without their say so or permission… and yes women are crazy
ur right. but i think its better to have confronted him. cause she’s prolly angry u started a scene, but deep down i bet she’s happy u care about her. i would be if i was in that situation. give her some time to cool down and she’ll get over it!
Maybe she liked the attention for a little while or considered him or friend or was just embarrassed by the scene.
Got that right. The tough thing about relationships is that sometimes no matter what you do, girls are going to b*tch about it either way. She shouldn’t be mad at you for confronting Mark Chmura (look it up if you don’t know what I’m talking about) about getting all up on her. Sometimes there’s just no pleasing a woman. Fact of life.
I understand ..Well i kinda got confused just reading ur question ..Lol..But i believe that if she’s mad at you than u should act like you dont care because you actually tired to help her and she’s the one who went to you for help and she should of known that if she tells you that ur reaction aint gonna be any good one … Cuz if it was than ur a damn bad boyfriend and she should actually appericate your careness .. I think you should call her and tell her how you feel ..
Getting into a fight with the guy probably wasn’t the best way to handle that situation. What did she mean by harassment, was he coming on to her or what? The guy was probably saying how hot your girl was and she just didn’t know how to handle that. Bottom line you can’t go around knocking every guy out that says something to your girl. Remember girls are confusing don’t let them confuse you.
probly because she wanted you to settle it out like men.